I was thinking about that steep learning curve we all have to get through… teaching ourselves HOW to eat. Of course there are good foods (e.g. veggies and whole grains) and there are bad foods (e.g. bear claws and doritos) but more importantly than that, we have Quantity (i.e. Portion Control) and Quality (i.e. balance nutrition); additionally we have to learn little things like WHEN to eat.
I didn’t get fat because of fast food or junk food alone. Lots of thinner people eat both.
I didn’t get fat because I don’t exercise enough. Lots of thinner people exercise little.
I also didn’t get fat because of genetics or because of a physical malady. Lots of people with worse genetics or greater physical issues have lesser issues with weight than I do.
So, WHY am I FAT?
I got fat because food became WAY more than just nutrition and sustenance to me. It became my crutch and my entertainment system. Sad? Eat. Mad? Eat. Bored? Eat. Up late watching the Tube? Eat. Out with friends? Eat… too much, too late, wrongs foods, etc. I got fat because I LET MYSELF.
Although I started my New Living Plan (”Diet”) on April 21st, 2008. I actually started long before that. I started by educating myself and more importantly, UNDERSTANDING myself. Evaluating yourself with critical, unsympathetic eyes is key I think to making a lifelong change.
Accepting that I have been weak in letting things go so far was hard, but necessary.
Accepting that many of the reasons I have eaten are no longer valid was hard, but necessary.
Accepting that my lifestyle must change was hard, but necessary.
Learning How To Live has been eye opening and difficult, but necessary.
After all this introspection and education, do you know what I’ve found?
- Mom and Dad were right: “Everything in moderation.”
- A Diet will take weight off, but will not by itself keep it off. That requires a lifelong change to habits and behaviors.
- During a Weight Reduction period, everyday counts. If you fall, get up and start again right away.
- During a Weight Maintenance period, there’s more room for error… as long as you go back to your New Lifestyle.
- Healthy Food ≠ Tasteless Food. It just requires learning new ways to cook and eat.
- Living Right can be as enjoyable as Living Poorly. It’s just different.
What I’ve discovered on this journey is this: Embrace the changes. Learn to love life on this path as you did on the other. The journey can be at least as pleasurable and the benefits will be far greater.